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My Personal Horror Show's avatar

I read your Substack because you are an honest, reflective, and insightful writer. This post exemplifies those qualities. I listen to your podcast (and have since the days you were still with Adam’s crew) because you’re funny and make me laugh. I honestly don’t care about the Carolla show gossip.

Please don’t edit your true feelings out of concern for preserving subscribers. Your voice is valid and it matters.

(P.S. Your last book was hilarious and I look forward to the next one.)

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Alison Rosen's avatar

Omg thank you so much, Jeff! This comment is so lovely!

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Joe Brown's avatar

i needed this steadying counsel. thank you 🍁

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Julie's avatar

I’m in the camp who doesn’t want to be as extreme as going no-contact, but I want to… temporarily go no-contact. Or low-contact. Actions have consequences. I’m repulsed by DJT because he’s amoral and base in a way no other president has been, leaving aside his other declarations. Those are far harder traits to dismiss. The DJT supporters in my circle want to keep my friendship while not having to explain they’re giving a million passes for character they’d never tolerate otherwise.

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bottle green jaguar's avatar

“keeping the peace is tactically worthwhile” — so well said, and a point rarely made

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Ana Q's avatar

I had to delete my insta and tik tok after the election for my own mental health. I’ll be back though.

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Scott Kummer's avatar

This is a great post. Lots of wisdom and insight.

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Breffni Kehoe's avatar

It is starting. Look at his appointees. Department of Education, gone - hope your kids aren’t on the spectrum! Because that is where ALL FUNDING for special needs kids comes from. No more. Gone. He’s appointing a Fox News anchor as Secretary of Defence ffs! People who voted for Trump did so out of white fear (I’m losing my privilege!!!!) or they drank the kool ade. His entire platform was white nationalism and tariffs… Whether people cut off Trump voters is a personal choice. Personally, I choose not to give racist, misogynistic fascists my favour. I also have no time for morons who revel in their ignorance.

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Alison Rosen's avatar

No the majority of special ed funding still comes from the states. But the protections (i.e. FAPE) are ensured at the federal level so I worry what it will look like in certain states.

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Breffni Kehoe's avatar

Like any Red State…

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Breffni Kehoe's avatar

Dog killer is head of Homeland Security. Rubio Secy of State. Bug eyed fascist assistant WH advisor for policy. Panel being set up to fire any general who refuses to take a loyalty pledge to Trump… it’s all happening

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